29 May 2023 · with Marisa Peer
Reprogram Your Mind with Marisa Peer
World-renowned therapist Marisa Peer joins Dubai Stars to reveal why self-sabotage is so common — and exactly how to stop it holding you back.
Why Your Own Mind Could Be Your Biggest Obstacle
Most founders and CEOs in Dubai will tell you the hardest competition they face isn't in the market — it's internal. Negative self-talk, procrastination, perfectionism, and fear of failure are patterns that quietly erode momentum, regardless of how strong the business plan is. Marisa Peer has spent decades studying exactly those patterns, and in this episode of Dubai Stars she brings her trademark clarity to one of the most overlooked challenges in high performance: self-sabotage.
Who Is Marisa Peer?
Marisa Peer is one of the world's most sought-after therapists and the creator of Rapid Transformational Therapy (RTT), a methodology that blends hypnotherapy, psychotherapy, and neuro-linguistic programming into a single, results-focused approach. She has worked with Olympic athletes, A-list entertainers, and executives across the globe, and has authored multiple bestselling books on the psychology of achievement and self-worth.
Her central argument — and the thread running through this entire conversation — is straightforward: self-sabotage is not a character flaw. It is a learned response, which means it can be unlearned.
The Roots of Self-Sabotage
Peer is direct about where these patterns come from. Most self-defeating behaviours are installed early in life, often before the age of seven, when the critical faculty of the mind is not yet fully formed. The stories we tell ourselves about being "not good enough," "not smart enough," or "not deserving of success" get wired in as facts — and then we spend years unconsciously acting to confirm them.
For entrepreneurs and leaders, this can show up as chronic undercharging, avoiding visibility, sabotaging relationships, or abandoning promising ventures just before the breakthrough moment.
Rewiring the Pattern
The encouraging message Peer brings to this episode is that the brain remains plastic. The same process that embedded a limiting belief can be used to replace it. She walks through the principles behind RTT and explains why simply understanding a problem intellectually is rarely enough — the change has to happen at the level where the belief was first formed.
This is a conversation that moves well beyond motivational talking points. Peer is specific about the mechanisms of change, and the framework she shares is immediately applicable whether you are leading a team of five or five hundred.
Built for Builders
At Dubai Stars, we speak with founders and executives who are already doing extraordinary things. What strikes us about Marisa Peer's work is how relevant it is at every stage of a career — the ambition that gets you started can be quietly undermined by the same mental wiring that once felt protective.
If you have ever wondered why talent and hard work alone don't always produce the results they should, this episode is worth your full attention. Listen to the complete conversation with Marisa Peer on all major podcast platforms now.
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